If you are wanting to make changes in your life – a new job or to lose weight – and you are finding it a struggle, then the problem can be all in your head! What I mean is that you may be focusing on what you don’t want as opposed to what you do. It amazes me how many people I speak with just know that they need more fulfillment or satisfaction in their life; their current job or life situation is not meeting their needs. However, when asked what it is they want so they can get that fulfillment they cannot say.
When we focus on what we don’t want we wont be open to any new possibilities; it’s as if we train our brain to be closed off to any ideas or possibilities we entertain. Keeping our focus and resulting actions on areas that are causing us unhappiness and distress is draining and toxic to our well-being and it leads us down a slippy-slope to a host of problems, both emotional and physical. The good news, however, is that you can totally turn your way of thinking around, but I won’t promise you that it will be easy or fast; nothing done quickly does not usually turn out well, mainly in the respect of forming a life-long habit for the ‘next time.’
When you find yourself in an unhappy situation and you feel stuck:
- Slow down – when we feel frustrated or unhappy we are in discomfort, which will lead us to find a quick-relief; often, this can lead to impulsive or destructive behaviors, like drinking or eating that doughnut. Taking time to assess and analyze the source of your wants will help you to find the answers you are seeking (they are there).
- Free-think – take time and answer the question, “if time or money weren’t an issue, I would __________” ; or, what wish(es) would you ask the Genie in the bottle? Allow yourself to think big – no one is editing or monitoring your answers (there are no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ here)
- Focus on what you DO want – this step is where you now train that brain of yours to be focused only on your desires, wants, needs. This is where you use tools like affirmations, power words, journaling, or a vision board to keep those wants in front of you at all times.
You have the power within to do and achieve all you want – it is you that prevents you and it usually results from the focus on the negatives, so make the commitment and allow yourself to be more positive. Try it for 30-60 days, the time it takes to formulate a new habit, and see the life-changes you will make.
Career fairs are a great way to find a job; however, it takes knowledge, preparation and saavy to navigate one successfully. How do you stand out in a crowd of 2,000 or more and get the attention of a handful of employers?
Here are some tips to help you from preparation through the job fair and after:
Preparing for the Career/Job Fair:
1. Make sure you have an updated resume that highlights your skills and experience and that quantifies your benefits
2. Research companies attending the fair to see which ones you want to target and then learn more about those companies
3. Pull together a professional outfit; also, make sure your hair and nails are clean and styled
4. Get a babysitter for your children – do NOT bring them
5. Prepare a short, 30- or 60-second commercial of how you will introduce yourself and what benefits you offer. Tie this in with your brand – what are you known for?
Things to Bring to the Career/Job Fair:
- Copies of your resume (25-50), depending on the size of the even and number of employers you want to see
- A briefcase or professional-looking notepad or binder
- A networking card that lists your contact info and your 60-second commercial
- Your 60-second commercial
- Information about the companies you are interested in speaking with
- A list of questions you may want to ask employers
- Energy – show your excitement
At the Fair:
- Have a plan or strategy on how you get in front of employers
- Arrive early to secure a good spot and ensure you will get representatives while they are fresh
- Once inside, locate where your targeted companies are
- Make sure you extend you hand for a professional handshake – firm but not too strong or too wimpy
- Ask your questions and how they relate to your career goal
- Ask what are the next steps for after
After the Fair:
- Be sure to send a handwritten note or card to each employer you spoke with to thank them for their time, to reiterate your tag line or benefit to them
- Express your interest in a meeting or to have further discussion
- Follow-up on others you may have networked with – you never know who they know!
These are some tips to help you make the most out of a career/job fair and to be effective as a job search strategy. What other tips have you found that have led you to be successful at a job/career fair you’ve attended?